Attraction Profile Assessment

Who draws
you in?

A reflective, non-clinical assessment mapping your sexual orientation, romantic attraction, and attraction style across the full spectrum of human desire — built to inform deeper, more intentional matching.

Begin assessment
5
Dimensions mapped
21
Reflective questions
~5
Minutes
25+
Orientation profiles
What this covers

Four dimensions of attraction, mapped honestly.

01
Sexual Attraction
How you experience physical and sexual desire — including frequency, intensity, and whether it exists at all.
02
Romantic Attraction
Who you want emotional intimacy and closeness with — which can diverge significantly from sexual desire.
03
Gender in Attraction
The role gender identity and expression play in who draws you in — from gender-blind to expression-specific.
04
Attraction Style
How attraction forms for you — immediate, emotionally gated, intellectually conditional, infrequent, or absent.
The assessment

Your attraction profile starts here.

There are no right answers — only honest ones. Your responses remain private and map to profiles drawn from established orientation and attraction literature. Use the results as a starting point for conversation with your matchmaker.

Kink Matchmaking — Attraction Profile

Who are you drawn to?

A reflective assessment covering sexual orientation, romantic attraction, gender in attraction, and how attraction forms for you.

Sexual orientation Romantic attraction Gender in attraction Attraction style Fluidity Asexual spectrum

Five sections. Twenty-one questions. No right answers — only honest ones.

~5 minutes
Section 1 of 5 1 of 21

Almost there

Share to unlock your profile.

Enter your name and email to receive your full attraction profile — and send it directly to your matchmaker to inform your consultation.

Your results will be emailed to your matchmaker at Kink Matchmaking.

How it works

Honest reflection. Precise matching.

01
Complete the assessment

Answer twenty-one reflective questions across five dimensions of attraction, including a dedicated section on demisexuality and emotional bonding. No accounts required. No data stored. Just honest responses that map your experience.

02
Submit to unlock your profile

Your results are revealed once you share your name and email with your matchmaker — ensuring every profile arrives in context, ready to inform your intake conversation.

03
Your matchmaker receives it

Your full attraction profile — orientation matches, alignment percentages, and attraction traits — is emailed directly to your matchmaker to inform how they approach your introductions.

04
Receive intentional introductions

Every introduction is informed by compatibility across dynamic, orientation, attachment, and attraction profile. Not algorithmic. Human-led. Discreet.