BDSM Self-Assessment · Kink Matchmaking
Kink Matchmaking
Self-Assessment

Know yourself.
Find your match.

A thoughtful, in-depth assessment drawn from established kink psychology frameworks. Your completed profile is reviewed personally by your matchmaker — never an algorithm.

35 questions · ~8 minutes
Reviewed by a human matchmaker
Confidential & judgment-free
Based on bdsmtest.org & bdsm-limits.com
Before you begin. This assessment is for adults 18+ and is intended for self-reflection and matchmaking intake. It is not a clinical tool. There are no right or wrong answers — only honest ones. Your responses will be shared only with your assigned Kink Matchmaking matchmaker and held in strict confidence.
Your details — so your matchmaker can reach you

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Your Report

Your BDSM Profile

Role tendency

Kink category affinities

Where your interests lie

Scores reflect intensity of interest across six dimensions.

Your limits summary

Soft limits, hard limits & more

Understanding your limits is the foundation of honest communication.